When it comes to running, let’s just say I am built for comfort and not for speed. 

With that stated, I have great appreciate for sprinters; appreciation borne out of jealousy.  I enjoy watching track events, especially relay races.  With great concentration, these runners also have the dexterity to pass a baton between them while both run full speed.  The winner is the relay team whose runner passes the finish line first with possession of the baton.  A team may have the fastest runners, but if they cannot hand off the baton, they lose the race.  Passing the baton is the most crucial moment of the relay race.

Psalm 71:18 – So even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to come.

Unless the Lord plans to allow me to live to be 105 or older, I have lived over half my life.  God has gradually placed a burden on my heart to invest in younger people.  I don’t know how many years I have left , but I am in the “changeover box,” as they call it.  I have identified three “runners” to whom I want to hand a baton.

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Have you ever met someone who “just didn’t get it”? You know the type. They live oblivious to how off track their life is. They never seem to learn from their mistakes, in fact, they are a mess but think that everything is O.K.

Sometimes that hot mess may be YOU.

Take heart. Jesus surrounded himself with such as these. His twelve disciples often seemed to demonstrate a phenomenal ability to miss the obvious lessons Jesus taught.

You can read a perfect example of this in Mark 8:9-21.

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Super Bowl 51 concluded with one of the most epic sports meltdowns in history.  As a fan of the Atlanta Falcons, naturally I felt disappointed.  The game was a reminder that in sports, and in life, it’s not the start but the finish that really matters. To win, the team must finish well. At halftime, the Falcons looked invincible and the Patriots appeared demoralized.  After the next 34 minutes of game time, things would look quite different. 

When Life is Like the Super Bowl

You may find yourself at a place where your life more closely resembles the Patriots at halftime of Super Bowl 51.  Little you do succeeds and the odds seem stacked against you. You’ve experienced failure, disappointment, and defeat.  You just don’t have the gumption to finish well.

I know how you feel.  Life can overwhelm us at times, leaving us feeling hopeless and trapped.  Somedays, we want to just “run out the clock” and get on to the next thing.

Conversely, you may find yourself in a place where you life closely resembles the Falcons at halftime.  Your life has been awesome, God has been good to you, and you are reaping the joy of bountiful blessings.  You have few complaints and as a general rule you find yourself pleased and satisfied.

Believe it or not, the second scenario is the more dangerous of the two.

When things are going well, we need to beware of the temptations of complacency and over confidence.  It is easy to think that things will continue along the same path, so we let down our guard,  We fail to maintain a good level of diligence and self-discipline.  We forget that even a wave of success will eventually break along a shore line. 

However, feeling hopelessly behind and defeated also has its temptations.  When nothing is going right, we discover the urge to give up and stop trying.   We face the lie that our past failure makes victory impossible.  If we give in to this attitude, we will never turn our rough start into a positive finish.

3 Questions to Help You Finish Well

1.  Where Am I?

Whether in success or defeat, we need to be honest with ourselves.  Successes tend to make us delirious, and defeat often leads us to blaming and excusing.  Finishing well requires us to constantly and honestly self-evaluate.  We cannot be sure of the right direction if we are not sure of where we stand at the moment.

2.  How Did I Get Here?

Successes often cause us to over-estimate the role we play in them.  On the other hand, defeat causes us to either under-valuate ourselves or more dangerously, erroneously blame others.  We need to take healthy ownership of where we are in life.  We must acknowledge the positive role others play in our successes and own up to our culpability in defeat.  If we get overconfident in our victories, the wave of success is soon to crash.  If we blame others or make excuses for our defeats, they will forever imprison us. 

3.  What Do I Need to Do to Move Forward?

In success we cannot complacently stand pat and in defeat we cannot remain paralyzed in our pain.  Overconfidence and complacency in success will lead us to stagnation.  Blame and excuses in bog us further in the deep mire of our hopelessness. 

To those who feel they have a hopeless second half, let me encourage you with one truth. Sometimes getting from where you are to where you need to be can seem an insurmountable task.  Don’t let the enormity of the task keep you from getting started.

Chinese philosopher famously wrote, “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”  Each day, think of at least one thing you can do to move yourself forward from where you are.

Which of the three questions do you most need to ask yourself today?  What one thing will you do today to help you finish well?

Help from the Bible

Not that I have already reached the goal or am already fully mature, but I make every effort to take hold of it because I also have been taken hold of by Christ Jesus. Brothers, I do not consider myself to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead, I pursue as my goal the prize promised by God’s heavenly call in Christ Jesus. – Philippians 3:12-14 (HCSB)

We are pressured in every way but not crushed; we are perplexed but not in despair; we are persecuted but not abandoned; we are struck down but not destroyed. We always carry the death of Jesus in our body, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. – 2 Corinthians 4:8-10 (HCSB)

See also, Renaming Your Reality

What if someone offered to give you $864.00 each day every day of your life?  Would you take it?  What you would you do with it?  Generally speaking, you really only have 2 choices.

I think of all the things I could buy; things that my family really needs.  I can think of plenty of frivolous items on which I could spend my per diem as well. I could save the money for several days amassing a large enough sum to warrant a “big ticket” purchase.

In all of these cases I am choosing to spend the daily money. 

But…

What if each day, I used the $864 to generate additional money?  Let’s say I found a way to turn my daily $864 into $950 (10%).  I might not have the items I could buy with the money, but I would have more money stored up.  In this case I am choosing to invest the daily money.

With the first scenario, at the end of a week I have “stuff” but no money.  In the second scenario, I may not have any stuff at the end of the week but, I have over $8800.  This is previously accrued money plus each day’s money plus10%.  Each passing day I can continue to grow my investment as long as I live.

With that kind of investment I am in a position to both continue to invest and spend a little on the things I need and want.

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I remember in my early teens (a long, long time ago) watching a movie titled “The Gumball Rally.”  In the movie, teams raced across the country over the course of several days.  The winner was the first team to arrive at the Queen Mary in Long Beach, California.

Once scene that stuck with me involved the Italian driver as he climbed into his Ferrari to begin the race.  He tore the rearview mirror from its place and exclaimed, “First rule of Italian racing: what’s behind you doesn’t matter.”

That’s a pretty good rule for everyday living: keeping the past in proper perspective.  I wouldn’t say the past doesn’t matter. Both good and bad past experiences have shaped us and brought us to the place we now find ourselves.  However, all too often we give it too much power in our present and future.

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You can learn from your past, but too many people live in their past.  You should be thankful for your past but we not indebted to your past.  We let the bad experiences of the past become excuses for bad choices in the present.  We let the good experiences of the past keep us from expecting new and greater things from God.

It is not a bad thing to remember the past fondly and to celebrate God’s goodness in days gone by.  The book of Psalms often recounts the past deeds of God as a reason to give Him praise and offer worship. 

How Living In Your Past Can Hinder You

The danger comes when we give focus to the past and long for those days to return. Consider these two ways living in the past can hinder what God wants to do in our present and future.

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I am a product of the first generation of video game kids. The video games we played in my youth were very primitive compared to the sophisticated high-tech games kids play today. Our game choices, nonetheless, challenged us and entertained us for hours.

For a flashback example, click here to watch a YouTube video of the classic Atari game Pong.

Arguably, one of the best features of the video game was the reset button. If the game was not going as you hoped, you could hit the reset button and start over.

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Even though real life doesn’t come with a reset button, New Year’s Day gives the illusion of a fresh start. It is a time to assess the past year and pray about growing in the year to come. New Year’s gives us an opportunity to improve on the previous year.

I believe that much success in life comes from how we choose to view it. With that in mind, I am choosing to look at things a little differently in the coming year.

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Rene Descartes is famous for penning the famous existentialist mantra “I think; therefore, I am.” Little did he know, he was not far off from Biblical truth.

In fact just add the one small word “as” to the beginning and it is very Biblical. Proverbs 23:7 teaches us that our thoughts determine who we become and define who we are. “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.”

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Nobody likes to be told “no.” 

One of the most difficult things parents do is to say “no” to a child’s request.  All of us want our children to be happy and we want to see them smile.  We recognize, however, that sometimes they need to hear the word “no.”

We can’t always expect a child to understand the reasons a particular request is not in their best interest.  As caring adults, we bear the responsibility of doing what is best for our children even when they don’t understand.

Sometimes, God says no to our requests as well.  As a loving Heavenly Father, He knows what is best and withhold from us anything less than that best.  I have discovered that while God’s “no” is often not pleasant, nevertheless it always leads to His best for me.

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Reasons God Says No

God does not arbitrarily or capriciously say no; as with all of His other actions, He has a purpose.  Let’s consider some of the reasons God says no to some of our requests.

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Sometimes, we are guilty of asking God to do things He has commanded us to do.

That truth hit home in my mind a few weeks ago as we sang a song in church titled “Shine, Jesus, Shine.”

“Shine, Jesus, shine, fill this land with the Father’s glory,

Blaze, Spirit, blaze, set our hearts on fire…”

As I sang those words, the Lord reminded me that WE are the light of the world.  If Jesus is to shine, we are the bulbs He wants to use. 

“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” – Matthew 5:14-16

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